Friday, February 5, 2010

My girlfriend and i are splitting HELP?

she's not sure she wants the conflictive relationship, she remembers only the bad stuff in the past, how can we fall in love again? going on 2 yrsMy girlfriend and i are splitting HELP?
try a fresh new start, take a couple days off without talking then start like new, not bringing up the past and take it real slowMy girlfriend and i are splitting HELP?
well, I wish I could offer more support for you. I would try to remind her of the good times and if she fails to recognize it you can't force her to. I would definately ask her about her feelings and the reasons behind the feelings. I would compare those feelings to your own.Then maybe from there you could decide what to do...sorry I wasn't much help.
take her back to the place you first met (unless it is a bar lol) then take her to the first place you went on a date to. tell her how much you love her, tell her you dont want to lose her, and then ask her how you guys can fall in love again. dont tell her you will change, that is a tired old excuse and women get sick of hearing it. tell her with time and both of you willing to work on the relationship, things will get better.... thats a better way to put it. good luck!
Make her fall in love with you again by fixing whatever problems you had. Come up with some concrete solutions. Then you need to start being amazing to her. Really go out of your way for her. Call her (not too often/obsessively if you're like that), take her out if you can, go out for walks in a park, watch movies together, cook dinner together, hang out with friends together.
try giving her some space for a week or to and then sit down with her and have a talk. tell her you'll try harder to work things out without getting conflictive and listen to what she has to say. good luck.
Remind her of what was good, and when I say remind, not with words, prove it to her, show her how much you love her, show her that you still know what's her favorite restaurant/club/pub is. Take her out but dont go too cheesy and lame as well.
Sometimes people need to go their separte ways. If it's meant to be then in time she will realize that and come back to you. But for now let her go, and don't make any contact with her. Let her make the first move .
Dude, I think she's just making excuses about the bad stuff that you guys had in the past. I also think that she really wants to break it off with you! If I were you, I'm gonna find a better woman, but if you really love her then try to court her again, like going out,eating out, those kinds of stuff. Flowers and chocolates are also good, think of it as you were starting from scratch!!! I hope this helps.
Well, personaly, if I could only remember bad stuff from my relationship and thats been for 2yrs I would say, that there is no hope for this relationship. Sorry....
if she loves YOU, she'll stay w/ out, if not,,dont force her, cuz its just going to caue harm in the future..try to ';let her go'; , if she loves you shell come back..

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